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What I like to do to you

NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).

0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a “soft limit”).

1 means you don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object if it were asked of you by your Dominant.

2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.

4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.


Abrasion 2
Age Play 3
Anal Sex 5
Anal Plugs (small) 5
Anal Plugs (large) 5
Anal Plug (public under clothes) 5
Animal Roles 3
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 5
Aromas 2
Asphyxiation 3
Auctioned for charity 3
Bathroom use control 3
Beastiality 1
Beating (soft) 2
Beating (hard) 0
Blindfolding 5
Being Serviced (sexual) 5
Being bitten 2
Breast/chest bondage 4
Breath control 4
Branding 0
Boot Worship 2
Bondage (light) 5
Bondage (heavy) 5
Bondage (multi-day) 5
Bondage (public under clothing) 5
Breast whipping 2
Brown showers (scat) 0
Cages (locked inside) 4
Caning 1
Catheterization 1
Cattle prod (electrical toy) 3
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) 4
Chains 4
Chastity belts 5
Chauffeuring 3
Choking 4
Chores (domestic service) 5
Clothespins 3
Cock worship 5
Collars (worn in private) 5
Collars (worn in public) 5
Competitions (with other subs) 5
Corsets (wearing casually) 5
Corsets (trained waist reduction) 4
Cuffs (leather) 5
Cuffs (metal) 5
Cutting 0
Diapers (wearing) 2
Diapers (wetting) 2
Diapers (soiling) 2
Dilation 2
Dildos 5
Double Penetration 5
Electricity 3
Enemas (for cleansing) 5
Enemas ( retention/punishment) 5
Enforced chastity 5
Erotic Dance (for audience) 5
Examinations (physical) 5
Exercise (forced/required) 5
Exhibitionism (friends) 5
Exhibitionism (strangers) 5
Eye contact restrictions 4
Face Slapping 4
Fantasy Abandonment 5
Fantasy rape 5
Fantasy gang rape 5
Fear (being scared) 4
Fisting (anal) 2
Fisting (vaginal) 2
Flame play 1
Following orders 5
Foot worship 2
Forced bedwetting 2
forced dressing 5
Forced eating 2
Forced homosexuality 4
Forced heterosexuality 4
Forced masturbation 5
Forced nudity (private) 5
Forced nudity (around others) 5
Forced Servitude 5
Forced smoking NO
Full head hoods 5
Gags (cloth) 5
Gags (inflatable) 5
Gags (phallic) 5
Gags (rubber) 5
Gags (tape) 5
Gas masks 3
Genital sex 5
Given away to another Dom (temp) 4
Given away to another Dom (perm) 2
Golden Showers 0
Gun play 0
Hair brush spankings 4
Hair pulling 4
Hand Jobs (giving) 5
Harems (serving w/other subs) 5
Harnessing (leather) 5
Harnessing (rope) 5
Having food chosen for you 4
Having clothing chosen for you 5
(head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) 5
Head (rcv fellation/cunnilingus) 5
High Heel Wearing 5
High Heel Worship 4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) 3
Hoods 5
Hot oils (on genitals) 2
Hot waxing 2
Housework (doing) 5
Human puppy dog 4
Humiliation (private) 5
Humiliation (public) 5
Hypnotism 3
Ice cubes 3
Immobilization 5
Infantilism 2
Initiation rites 2
Injections 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage 5
Interrogations 4
Kidnapping 5
Kneeling 5
Knife play 0
Leather Clothing 4
Leather restraints 5
Lectures for misbehavior 4
Licking (non-sexual) 3
Lingerie (wearing) 5
Manacles and Irons 5
Manicures (giving) 3
Massage (giving) 3
Massage (receiving) 3
Medical scenes 3
Modeling for erotic photos 5
Mouth bits 5
Mummification 3
Name change (for scene) 3
Nipple clamps 5
Nipple rings (piercing) 3
Nipple weights 4
Oral/anal play (rimming) 3
Over the knee spanking 5
Orgasm denial 5
Orgasm control 5
Outdoor scenes 4
Pain (severe) 0
Pain (mild) 4
Persona training (in scene) 4
Personal modification (rl) 2
Phone sex (serving Dom) 5
Phone sex (serving Dom’s friends) 4
Phone sex (commercial provider) 4
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) 3
Piercing (permanent) 2
Plastic surgery NO
Prison scenes 2
Prostitution (public pretense) 5
Prostitution (actual) 2
Pony slave 5
Public exposure 5
Punishment scene 3
Pussy/cock whipping 3
Pussy worship 3
Riding crops 3
Riding the “horse” (crotch tort) 5
Rituals 3
Religious scenes 0
Restrictive rules on behavior 5
Rubber/latex clothing 5
Rope body harness 5
Saran wrap 5
Scarification 0
Scratching - getting 3
Scratching - giving 0
Sensory deprivation 5
Serving 5
Serving as art 5
Serving as ashtray NO
Serving as furniture 5
Serving as a maid 5
Serving as a toilet (urine) 0
Serving as a toilet (feces) 0
Serving as waitress/waiter 5
Serving orally (sexual) 5
Serving other Doms (supervised) 5
Serving other Doms (unsupervised) 5
Sexual deprivation (short term) 5
Sexual deprivation (long term) 5
Shaving (body hair) 3
Having (head hair) 5
Skinny dipping 4
Sleep deprivation 3
Sleep sacks 4
Slutty clothing (private) 5
Slutty clothing (public) 5
Spandex clothing 5
Spanking 5
Speech restrictions (when/what) 4
Speculums (anal) 3
Speculums (vaginal) 4
Spitting 2
Spreader bars 5
Standing in corner 3
Stocks 3
Straight jackets 4
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) 5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) 5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) 4
Strapping (full body beating) 2
Suspension (upright) 3
Suspension (inverted) 3
Supplying new partners for Dom 4
Swallowing feces 0
Swallowing semen 5
Swallowing urine 0
Swapping (with one other couple) 2
Swinging (multiple couples) 2
Tampon training (in ass) 2
Tattooing 0
Teasing 5
TENS unit (electrical toy) 3
Thumb cuffs (metal) 4
Tickling 2
Triple Penetration 5
Uniforms 4
Including others 3
Vaginal dildo 5
Verbal humiliation 5
Vibrator on genitals 5
Violet wand (electrical toy) 3
Voyeurism (watching others) 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) 4
Video (watching others) 3
Video (recordings of you) 5
Water torture 3
Waxing (hair removal) 3
Wearing symbolic jewelry 3
Weight gain (forced) 0
Weight loss (forced) 2
Whipping 2
Wooden paddles 3
Wrestling 1